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We’ve all heard the old saying about being careful what you wish for, it might come true. You might think you have found Mr. Right, but how can you know for sure? Well, that part will take time. But in order to find out, you have to know how to get a man to want you first, meaning the man you believe to be the man of your dreams.
Fools Rush In
Don’t move too fast. Take it slow. There is a difference in getting a man to notice you and chasing him like someone with a near fatal attraction. He’s going to want to feel the decision to date you was partly, if not all, his decision. Give him time to get used to the idea, so he’ll be more comfortable around you.
Do Your Homework
Find out what you can about him without being too obvious. Then when the opportunity comes for a conversation, you can have something planned to say. It can be something like, “I hear you like soccer. Do you play?” A question takes the spotlight off you and puts it on him. He sees this as you having an interest in him and what he likes.
Take Time for Yourself
If you want him to want you, be desirable. Try a new hairdo, buy a new dress, add some highlights to your hair, or get a makeover. This should not be anything drastic. Just take time to look good when you go out. T-shirt and jeans are fine; just make sure you look good in them. You want to appear comfortable, relaxed, well groomed, and secure.
Silly Girl Stuff
Don’t act like a silly school girl when he’s around or nearby. Hanging out with your friends and having a good time is one thing. Acting like an immature silly girl trying to get a guy’s attention is another. Guys want a girl who can be serious and mature, yet still have a sense of humor. Just don’t carry it too far trying to get him to notice you.
Make a Date
Once you’ve gotten past the ice breaking stage and he’s still around and interested, or seems to be, invite him to dinner. Guys dig that a girl has her own funds and is willing to pick up the tab occasionally. Try to make it a dinner just for the two of you. Then be yourself and get to know each other better. Better yet, invite him to a meal at your place.
Speak with Your Eyes
It is not difficult to let a guy know you are interested in him without saying a word. Look at him, catch his gaze, and hold it. Slowly look away, but look back again in about 45-60 seconds. Is he looking? This is a message guys get. If you really want him, don’t be shy. Look him directly in the eye.
What a Girl’s Gotta Do
Some guys just have a hard time getting past a certain point. You know he likes you; you like him, too; you’ve been talking for hours. Lean forward, up close, and say, “I’m thinking you want to kiss me.” If he is interested in you, he’s already thought about it, and now the ball’s in his court. See where it goes! You might be surprised.
write by Rowan